Halle's Story

This is Halle’s Story

I first noticed my symptoms at 12 years old when I started my periods. I had always been excited to grow up and felt proud to start my period, but that excitement quickly turned into fear.

From the very beginning, my periods were extremely painful. I would vomit constantly, feel faint, overheat even in winter, and experienced extreme bloating. The pain was so severe that I sometimes couldn’t walk or stand without support, and as time went on, I began passing out during flare-ups. I sought medical attention early, but I was repeatedly told it was “normal period pain,” that I had a low pain tolerance, or that I was being dramatic. At just 12 years old, I was prescribed birth control to manage the pain, despite not being sexually active, and was told it would fix the problem. I stayed on birth control for four years, but the pain never improved - I simply learned to live with it.

Over the next six years, I had multiple GP appointments, hospital visits, blood tests, scans and MRIs, yet I was often told I was “too young” to have endometriosis and that some girls “just have bad periods”. Being dismissed for so long deeply affected my mental health and made me question my own body, leaving me wondering whether I was exaggerating or experiencing health anxiety.

At 16, after getting my first job, I began saving money to see a private specialist because I felt I had no other choice. I was finally listened to. After undergoing a laparoscopy two years later. I was finally diagnosed with endometriosis, six years after my symptoms began. Receiving the diagnosis was strangely relieving; after years of being unheard, it validated everything I had experienced.

Endometriosis has impacted my education, work, and mental wellbeing, forcing me to plan my life around flare-ups and pain, but it has also made me determined to raise awareness. No one should be made to feel that severe pain is “just part of being a woman.” If your pain is not being taken seriously, don’t give up. You know your body better than anyone. We deserve to be believed, we deserve better research, and we deserve faster diagnosis. Endometriosis is not “just a bad period,” and speaking about it is how change begins.

Thank you Halle for sharing your story.

No one should feel they have to pay to access the care they deserve. Endometriosis doesn’t wait and Halle and others like her shouldn’t have to either. The Government must take action. Call on your parliamentarians to drive down wait times and improve access to care within the NHS today using our easy online form.

 

Leonie's Story

I first experienced symptoms of endometriosis more than 20 years before I was finally diagnosed. My experience was long, inconsistent and often dismissive. For many years my symptoms were minimised or normalised. I frequently felt unheard and had to repeatedly advocate for myself.

Although receiving a diagnosis brought validation, treatment has not been straightforward. Multiple MRI scans have confirmed deep endometriosis, and despite surgery, deep endometriosis remains untreated due to surgical limitations, and I also live with adenomyosis and fibroids, which compound my symptoms.

It took decades of pushing to be taken seriously. Before diagnosis, I regularly had to cancel plans and miss responsibilities without fully understanding what was wrong, which affected my confidence, work stability and overall quality of life. While diagnosis eventually brought validation, the reality is that the condition continues to significantly affect my everyday life.

In my earlier years, my symptoms were severe but cyclical, with extremely painful periods that caused vomiting, fainting and days of being unable to function. Sadly, due to the long delay in diagnosis and effective treatment, this has progressed into daily chronic pain rather than just period-related pain. I’ve had to restructure my career and daily life around symptom management and pacing. Endometriosis is no longer something that affects me monthly - it impacts me every day. This has been the case for the last 3 - 5 years.

Following a failed surgery, I am also struggling to be transferred into an appropriate specialist care team, which has left me in ongoing pain without clear next steps for treatment. The long-term nature of unmanaged pain and uncertainty has also had a significant impact on my mental health, contributing to stress, exhaustion and emotional strain alongside the physical symptoms.

I’m sharing my story because no one should have to wait decades to be believed or receive appropriate care. Endometriosis is not just a ‘painful period’ condition. It is a complex, life-altering, disease that can affect the whole body and deserves faster diagnosis, access to specialist treatment, and meaningful understanding and support across healthcare, workplaces and society.

Endometriosis didn’t wait for Leonie, and delays in diagnosis and access to effective treatment and management options resulted in her symptoms progressing over time.

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Saverra's Story

This is Saverra's Story.

I’ve experienced pain for as long as I can remember. My first period, at the age of 11, was extremely painful, and it never felt ‘normal’ or manageable.

I first reported my symptoms around 15 or 16. I was told to “bear with it” and that painful periods were normal. In school, I would cry during lessons and walk home bent over in pain, often bleeding through my clothes. Teachers just accepted it as normal.

I followed doctors’ advice, took prescribed medications, but they never worked. The only reason I was referred for laparoscopic surgery was because I mentioned I wanted to have a child. My pain alone wasn’t enough to be taken seriously.

For me, diagnosis took around 20 years from first experiencing symptoms to finally receiving a diagnosis via laparoscopic surgery. My journey involved repeated dismissal, minimisation, and misinformation. Hormonal medications over a decade did not work for me and actually worsened my symptoms, and I was told at a young age to consider having children or having “everything taken out” which I thought was a cure. Even on the day of my laparoscopy, a surgeon told me there was “most likely nothing wrong” with me.

Endometriosis affects every part of my life. There are days when I literally can’t get out of bed. Washing my face, getting dressed, even basic tasks can feel impossible. On those days, I have to decide where to focus my energy, saving enough just to make it through work. Sometimes just managing that feels like an achievement, but it’s not a healthy way to live, and it’s not fair that I have to structure my life around surviving my symptoms.

I’ve had to adapt almost everything, planning meals ahead, using delivery services, pacing myself, and looking for shortcuts wherever possible to conserve energy. I’ve downloaded apps to monitor heart rate and energy levels etc to guide exercise because I love going to the gym, but I have to plan around my physical limits.

Managing endometriosis is not just a physical challenge, it’s a mental one. I live with undiagnosed ADHD and there’s a constant tension between my body, which needs rest, and my mind, which pushes me to move. If I don’t get some form of movement, I feel agitated, sad, emotional, and unfocused. Endometriosis has added to my anxiety, depression, and periods of feeling very low. I try everything in my power to manage it, both through medication and alternative approaches but it’s exhausting. It’s a continuous relearning journey, but I still push myself as much as I can, sometimes overdoing it, though I think I do quite well given all the health challenges I face.

Work has been heavily impacted too. I’ve had to take a lot of sick leave, move from full-time to part-time and back, and have been told to reduce my hours which isn’t financially viable for me.

In the South Asian culture, these issues are rarely talked about. It’s frowned upon to speak openly about period pain or chronic conditions, and often people are told to “just hide it” or that it’s normal. That lack of conversation and understanding has made this journey even harder. I wish someone had told me early on that severe pain isn’t something you just have to tolerate, that it’s not normal to suffer in silence.

I found Endometriosis UK while searching for answers and reassurance that my experience wasn’t unique. Reading other people’s stories made me feel less alone and more understood. One of the reasons I submitted my story is because I feel endometriosis is still very underrepresented and not widely spoken about in the South Asian community, so I hope sharing my experience might help raise more awareness.

To others living with endometriosis or going through the diagnosis process, trust your body. Pain that disrupts your life is not normal. Keep advocating for yourself, even when dismissed. Adapting your life to cope is not failure, it’s resilience.

I hope we all get the support and help we need.

Thank you Saverra for sharing your story. We hear all too often that those suffering with endometriosis symptoms feel dismissed and that their pain is not taken seriously. Endometriosis doesn’t wait and Saverra and too many others like her are left without timely diagnosis and access to personalised care, treatment and management options. This must change. 

Endometriosis UK is calling on UK Governments to act now to drive long overdue change to improve access to care and reduce diagnosis times. Our recommended roadmap for change is available to read in our 2026 Diagnosis Report, "The State of Endometriosis Care in the UK"

You can join us in taking action by writing to your elected representatives and asking them to take urgent action by using our easy online form.

Lisa's Story

This is Lisa's Story

I first noticed symptoms from the very start of my periods, around age 11. From the beginning, the pain was severe, disruptive, and overwhelming - but I was told it was normal, that it would settle, and that everyone struggled. So I learned early to minimise what my body was telling me.

As the years passed, the pain didn’t disappear - it changed. It deepened. It became something I learned to plan my life around. I learned how to function while hurting, how to push through education, work, and daily life while managing symptoms that were invisible to others.

I sought medical attention repeatedly over many years, but my symptoms were often dismissed or explained away. It took several years of advocating, pushing for referrals, and insisting that something was wrong before I was finally diagnosed. I believed that once there was a name for what I was living with, things would become clearer and that accessing care would become easier. That wasn’t the case.

Even after diagnosis, it has continued to be incredibly difficult to be listened to, treated, or taken seriously. I have been told – correctly - that the stage of endometriosis does not correlate with how much pain someone experiences, yet in the same conversations, my symptoms have been minimised because my disease was described as “stage 1/2” or “superficial.” These labels have been used to downplay my pain despite years of symptoms, multiple surgeries, and ultimately a hysterectomy.

I have been told I “don’t have it as bad as others.” I have been advised that surgery should be a last resort. I have also been told, contradictorily, that my surgery cannot be done privately because my case is too complex.

At one point, a red flag referral was downgraded to an “urgent” referral with a 48-week wait - without a single test, scan, or appointment taking place before that decision was made. Faced with waiting almost a year without investigation while my symptoms continued to worsen, I felt I had no choice but to seek private care simply to be seen.

Throughout this journey, the physical impact has been relentless - chronic pelvic and abdominal pain, flares, fatigue, and the unpredictability of symptoms that affect every aspect of daily life. But the mental impact has been just as significant. Years of having to explain, justify, and prove my pain have led to anxiety around appointments, self-doubt, and emotional exhaustion. Living in a constant state of advocacy takes a toll.

Endometriosis has shaped my education, my working life, my relationships, and my mental wellbeing. It has required resilience I never expected to need - not just to live with the condition, but to access care for it.

I am sharing my story in the hope that greater understanding, earlier intervention, and more compassionate listening can spare others from enduring the same long and exhausting fight to be believed.

Thank you Lisa for sharing your story.

Lisa first started experiencing symptoms of endometriosis at just 11 years old, but like far too many others, her journey to diagnosis was long and exhausting, and even after diagnosis, access to treatment and care remained a challenge.

Endometriosis UK is calling on UK Governments to act now to drive long overdue change to improve access to care and reduce diagnosis times. Our recommended roadmap for change is available to read in our 2026 Diagnosis Report, "The State of Endometriosis Care in the UK"

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